Wednesday, June 11, 2014

Heroes


Our little grandson, Blake, recently had surgery on his hip.
As is sometimes a condition with Downs, 
his hip sockets are loose, 
and his left hip needed to be tightened up.
His leg was sometimes pulling out from the socket.
This requires six weeks in a body cast,
then another surgery to remove that cast
and then put him in another one. 
Blake has been walking and running around,
indoors and out, for sometime now, 
so his family looked forward to all of this 
with fearful apprehension.
Would he freak out with the confinement, 
not being able to get down and play/walk/run,
and not understand why?
The great news is, 
Blake is taking it like a champ!

His Primary class sent over this signed banner - 
Rick and Jodie's ward love Blakey!


Each member of Blake's family spends hours 
playing hand games with Blake, 
playing catch with different balls, 
and singing and reading to him.
But the real truth be told,
his VERY FAVORITE THING 
is the iPad!
He knows how to navigate games and sites,
and his favorites are Mickey's Clubhouse and Daniel Tiger.


A hero is a man/woman who is 
admired for his/her courage and noble qualities.
This woman (Blake's mom) is hero personified.


She lifts and carries this little guy (50 lbs. worth)
constantly, cares for him in every way
and does it all with a big smile on her face 
and in her voice.
She, along with everyone in the family,
adores Blake!


And, speaking of heroes, here is another one, in my book.
My husband came down with shingles 
on the day before we left for Mesa 
for Syd's high school graduation.
On the 7 1/2 hour drive from St. George,
he kept grabbing his right ear, 
each time he had a shooting pain in his head.
He had a large, swollen gland behind his ear,
and the right side of his head was very sore to the touch.
Our doctor son and doctor son-in-law 
diagnosed him a couple of days after we got to Mesa, 
when he started breaking out with painful sores.
He took ibuprofen and Tylenol
and just kept going, not missing one thing,
including going golfing 
with his son, son-in-law and grandsons.
His stamina and mind-over-matter never fail to astound me!
He still has pain, and we hope it will eventually go away,
but he has not missed any scheduled event
or a day of work yet!
There are other reasons why I consider my husband a hero,
but this is just the latest one!


And here is another hero - our son, Rick.
He also spends countless time with Blake,
who absolutely adores him!
And, he is a wonderful father of his children
and the father of his ward as their bishop.
Roger and I had fun selecting some gourmet cheeses, 
meats, Tony Caputo pepper shooters and pickly goodies 
and making a basket for him for his birthday.


I think, the older we get,
the more we fully appreciate the heroic qualities of those we love,
and there are others I love who have heroic qualities, 
but these are the latest.
 I just wanted to share.


4 comments:

  1. I love this post. It is so true!! Jodie, Dad and Rick are all pretty amazing heroes! I love Jodie and the way she always has a smile on her face and serves Blake and her family. Dad is so tough…didn't complain once while in quite a bit of pain…just kept on going. Most people in the same situation would have been sick in bed and missed out on life. Rick is an amazing brother and so dedicated to his family and his ward. I agree with every word you shared and loved reading it!! Love them all dearly!

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  2. Thank you for the kind words! I so appreciate your heroic efforts in blogging about all of our lives. It is wonderful that you and Roger are so committed to your family and being there for our special moments. Then as you post we all get to stay in touch a little better. Roger, Rick, and Blake are definite heros in my book, and so are you Pam.

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  3. What a lovely post! Blake has brought so much love to his family and all who know him - I love the card from the Primary. Jodie is earning her "
    "wings" as an angel mom. Roger is tough - shingles is horribly painful ( a bout with it in my freshman year of college taught me that) . He serves others in many ways and Rick is following in his footsteps. Pam - you are my hero - you are a great builder of others. You know just the right things to say and you are liberal with praise and kind words of love. That is a wonderfully heroic quality!

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  4. What a lovely (tears inducing) post!!! I agree with everything you said! How blessed we are to be apart of this family.

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