Saturday, June 6, 2020

Surviving the Pandemic

When I look around me where I live . . . 



. . . and when I sit on our balcony in the early morning
(I find that I wake up earlier these days),
feel and smell the fresh, gentle breeze and hear the birds singing . . . 



. . . all seems right with the world!

Well, God is in His Heaven, but, oh, His beautiful world has been turned upside down!!!
Covid 19, Corona Virus, the Pandemic has brought and is continuing to bring huge change!
Lockdowns, sequestering, home schooling, working from home, social distancing, 
wearing face masks and protective gloves, terrifying news reports, mass demonstrations and riots 
across the world after an unjust racial murder- 
all these things, commonplace.
It remains to be seen for how long these things will continue.
Every individual and his or her future plans are affected. 
Roger and I have cancelled or postponed:

          *An 18-day Viking cruise leaving from Puerto Rico, crossing the Atlantic and stopping in Portugal and Spain
              *Attending two grandkid missionary setting aparts and Temple endowment sessions
                 (Katie and Jared)

              *Going to see Josh graduate from BYU (graduation was cancelled)

              *Two granddaughter's (Anna and Londyn) high school graduations (cancelled)                                

              *Roger's WHS class reunion trip to Jerry's ranch

              *The Gabrielsen family Back to Roots Trip and cruise to Norway, Sweden and Germany

              *Our kids and spouses Rocky Mountaineer train trip through the Canadian Rockies
*And, not eating out in restaurants!


That is some of our Glass Half Empty/Black Cloud Stuff!



But this time of upheaval change has brought some Glass Half-full/Silver Lining Stuff:

Though we miss the members of our Church congregation, I am finding that I am using this down time 
to tune in a little harder to my "Come Follow Me" study. 
 We are enjoying the longer and more frequent discussion times together about Christ. 
We have found even deeper meaning in partaking of the Sacrament each Sunday while doing it in our home.



We look forward to meeting virtually with our "Come Follow Me" group every Monday evening.
We have great discussions!



Our service missionary Pathway Connect work has not missed a beat.
Just before the Pandemic shut everything down, we received the Zoom meeting app and training. 
Every Thursday at 7 PM we meet with our students. The discussions have been less spontaneous 
as we meet virtually, but we're all learning to work with it. 
We love these cute kids!






This cute gal has blossomed! When she started last fall, she would hardly utter a word.

Roger and I celebrated Easter . . . 



. . . and Mothers' Day sequestered together.
Our kids have all been adament about us doing that and they check on us more often than they did 
and show and express their love.






At the beginning of all of this, 
we started having Zoom meetings every Wednesday evening with our kids' families.
After a couple of weeks of these fun meetings, I came up with the idea of sharing 
memories, bios and pics about Roger's and my grandparents, taking one couple a week. 

This week we were talking about Roger's Grandpa George and wife, Melva.

It was so cute - they told Max he kind of looked like his great-great-great Grandpa George, so he parted and combed his hair down the middle to show us!

When we talked about Roger's grandmother - Lois's mom, Laura Laverna - 
Chyrrl hooked Lois up to our Zoom 
and she met with us! We all enjoyed that a lot!


Mindy said after growing out her roots for so long without having her hair done, 
she decided to try out being a redhead!

We love it when our two Home MTC missionaries can sometimes join us in these Zoom meetings!

We had a mystery visitor one night. Guess who?




On the night we talked about Roger's mom, Chyrrl tuned her in again on Zoom. 
It was a beautiful evening of honoring her by showing lots of pics of her with us and various kids 
and grandkids, telling stories and paying tribute to her. 
We all love and adore our only mom/grandma left!


MAJOR LIFE PROJECT

Okay, so we have not gotten bored with nothing to do and here is why.
We have been doing 75 years worth of sorting - 
sorting through boxes and boxes 
of pictures, slides, papers, cards and notes, certificates memorabilia and yes, junk!









Roger has scanned and scanned and scanned and scanned and scanned and scanned and scanned . . .


His hair grew longer and longer (probably because of all of that scanning), 
so we took pics before he finally went to his barber.



 We were so sad to not be able to go to Mesa for Londyn and Anna's graduations 
from Mountain View High School.

Londyn has been an outstanding Varsity Cheerleader for four years, getting to cheer with her sister, 
Maddy this year. 
She has many talents, friends and boyfriends and is an absolute baby magnet. 
They call her the Baby Whisperer!


Anna was a cute cheerleader for a couple of years and this year she was on the school diving team. 
She was voted as Homecoming Queen and this spring was picked as Outstanding Toro of her school!
What a little dynamo she is!


Granddaughter Sydney, husband, Jake and adorable great-grandson, Charlie thrilled us 
with a social distancing visit right before Memorial Day.



Charlie is enjoying some custard bread pudding with homemade strawberry sauce.


We adore this darling little family!


Syd and Jake brought me beautiful flowers!


On Memorial Day, after Roger's Monday morning foursome finished their eighteen holes, 
we were invited for a hamburger cookout with all of the trimmings on Marilyn and Dave's Uffin's patio. 
Marilyn had prepared so much delicious food and she wouldn't let anyone bring anything.
We tried hard to practice social distancing. 
Ever since the inception of that awful virus, I remain squeamish about getting around people. 
I hope I can quit worrying about it soon!




A day later, Mindy, Jeff and kids stopped in for a quick social distancing visit 
on their way home from visiting Jeff's sister in Fresno. 
They recently purchased an Airstream trailer, something they have long dreamed of doing. 
Everything is self-contained, the only way to travel these scary days.


It was so wonderful to see them! And so hard not to give them big hugs and kisses!



On our following Pathway Connect night, we were invited to an 80th birthday celebration 
of our friend, Keith Cannon. 
I was again squeamish, but we made a quick appearance in their backyard.


So, here are some of the results of our three-month project.
Below is a minor little project 
that I just finished a couple of days ago.
I organized my memorabilia of my growing up years into a box, then documented each item
 so that my progeny will know why I kept each item.


I first took a pic of each item . . .



. . . then I made a catologue showing and explaining each item.
By the way, I got lots of good advice from our daughter, Missy. When she asked me what I wanted 
for Mother's Day, I said, "Organizing containers, labeler, etc."
so she did some research and she and Stacy sent some great items to us.











I had fun making this list that I put at the back of this catalogue.


Now Dad's old trunk is organized and filled with info of my predecessors.


We have all afore mentioned items organized into decades. We've got everything pretty much sorted 
and more containers are coming in the mail. 
The larger items are in these storage containers . . .



And the many photos we had collected before digital photography were put into these containers.



And I can't complete my post about surviving this Pandemic without including a few pics 
that we took of the food I have cooked and shared with friends and neighbors. 
I have tried lots of new recipes and have also made old favorites.
For some crazy reason, 
all but the first pic are of desserts. 
Go figure!
And speaking of figures, this staying at home and cooking my brains out hasn't been so great on mine!








I rarely have sat out on our balcony. 
Now I look forward to going out there each morning and meditating a bit, 
taking in God's beautiful world. I'll have to get up earlier and earlier through the summer for it to be cool enough. 

We've learned how to communicate with others in a different way with technology 
and it has been fun to make and also receive lots of "love" treats  to and from neighbors and friends back and forth to each other. 

Now our big family meets once a week virtually, which is something new 
and is the highlight of our week. 
We have loved chatting about our loved ones of the past with them.

And who knows whether we would have EVER tackled all of those boxes 
and organized the minutia of our lives! 
We have lots of writing in our future, but now we have a base.  

Am I grateful for this Pandemic? 
That might be stretching it, but I am grateful for its hidden blessings.

Wednesday, March 11, 2020

Sweet Celebrations!

Today is the day I had looked forward to for almost two years.
We were to have taken the shuttle to the Las Vegas airport with our friends, Jim and Kathy, 
to fly to North Carolina this evening, then to Puerto Rico to board the Viking Star 
and sail to stops in the Caribbean, 
and across the Atlantic to Madeira and three stops in Spain, ending in Barcelona.
Disappointing though it may be, postponing that same cruise until February, 2021, was the only smart thing to do.
To our knowledge, the ship will sail, despite the Coronavirus Pandemic, 
but Viking offered 100% monetary credit to be used in the next two years. 
Luckily, we had booked our air and our post tour in Barcelona with Viking.

So, what a great time to count our blessings 
and to catch up on some of our Sweet Celebrations in 2020 so far.

The end of January we were invited to the St. George Area Chamber of Commerce Dinner and Gal
with the theme, Hats and Bows.





They honored people in the community with awards in different categories, 
and the big ones at the end of the program were for Susi Lafaele, who has been with the Chamber for over ten years, and Pam Palermo, the outgoing president. 
They have both been major forces for the community. 
I have been volunteering for over eight years and have so enjoyed working with Susi. 
She is fun and upbeat, efficient and loved by everyone!
She has taken a job with Washington County and is over the fair, among other things.
They honored her that night and declared a Susi Lafaele Day!
They also honored our outgoing president, Pam Palermo, who has since moved to Arkansas, and declared the day following Susi's day, Pam Palermo Day!
I have also loved working with her.
It was so fun to be there that night and see those two honored for the work they've done for the Chamber. 
They were a great team together and wonderful videos had been put together showing them 
at some of the many events they organized.

I failed to get a pic with Susi or Pam that night, but I got a couple of them with Susi at the Chamber.




Pam had already moved when I realized I didn't get a pic with her.



One of my mom's best friends in Caldwell as I was growing up was Helen Mar Clark. 
In fact, Mom and Dad enjoyed getting together with Helen Mar and her husband, Wayne for years.
Their son, Jeff, is my age and their daughter, Susie, was a year younger 
and one of my favorite friends growing up.
Then both couples bought homes in St. George to spend the winters years ago.
Now Helen is the only one left of those dear people and she is a delightful force. 
She turned 100 years old in February and her family held a birthday open house for her.



I threw in a pic of our Pathway/Connect Gathering.
We meet with these kids every Thursday evening 
to review their lessons 
they have been studying on their computers all week, 
led by rotating student leaders. It is Hayden's turn this evening.
We really love these wonderful young people!


Another fun gathering we enjoyed is a Game Night with Steve and Viki and Jay and Anne at the Whitmer's.


Chyrrl, Roger's sister, and husband, Glynn, came to St. George for Glynn to ride horses with Jim Andrus. 
Jim and Mary are friends they met on their mission to Nauvoo.
 We met up with them at the movies.
Roger's sisters had been taking such good care of their mom, Lois, giving her 24 hour care, 
and Chyrrl and Glynn got away for the weekend. 
She is staying on her own now and almost all of the way back from a really scary period of time 
when she was recovering from illness. 


Roger and I went up north to stay with Lois for a few days a couple of times.
She really enjoyed Roger showing her pics and reading my blog to her of our family.


My Birthday Celebrations



My favorite part of having a birthday is getting expressions of love from my wonderful family and friends!


Roger took me for lunch at this place, which used to be called Egg and I.
The food and decor are much improved. I loved this dish we shared - arugula, avocado and beet salad on poached eggs and toast!


A major treat that night was enjoying the set Valentine's Day menu at the downtown St. George restaurant 
in the new Advenire Hotel, an upscale boutique hotel of Marriott.


The food was great chef good, and the chocolate torte for dessert was to die for! 
Roger is not a rich chocolate fan, and he loved it!


On Saturday we took a day trip to Vegas to shop for my birthday and found amazing President's Day sales. 
We had lunch at our favorite place, Mon Ami Gabi, and I was treated with my free birthday profiterole.


I get texts of free food items to try if you just show your waiter the message on your phone, 
and we have actually had this one before. Neither Roger or I like goat cheese, 
but because it was free, we tried it, and, wow! It is amazing!


Birthday Celebrations just kept going! Every year since Jane and Dan moved to St. George from Price, 
we get together for lunch or dinner for our birthdays - Jane's is February 13th, and mine, the 14th.
We have known them since our college days, both living in the married student housing at USU.
Jane and I carpooled to our teaching jobs at South Cache Junior High School.


I really get into the free birthday dessert thing!


The Dandoys, a couple in our branch, are moving to Arizona and Jeremiah 
planned the Branch Golf Schedule for years, 
which was really a labor of love coordinating it. 
The Barney's (pic below) held a farewell party for them in their home, 
inviting the golfers and wives in the branch.


Bob Laird made a special cake for the event.

A pic was taken of the golfers who attended after we ate and played games. 
Jerry Dandoy is in the first row, center.


Bob Moskus entertained us with silly songs on his guitar.

Roger recently enjoyed a hike with these branch friends 
to an Anasazi site 
at the top of a big round hill near Costco called Shinobe Kibe. 


There is a large sun dial made by the Anasazi Indians and the rocks point an exact north, south east and west. 
They enjoyed a pretty view at the top.



Large navigation arrow at the top of the hill

The new Chamber President, Don Willie, and other employees took us four volunteers 
to a Hibachi lunch at Sakura. 
They also ordered some great sushi for us.


Me, Sherri, Fred, Don (volunteers) and new President, Don.

The two Dons
When Pam was President, they called us Pam 1 and Pam 2.

Employees Carissa, Tammy and Trevor

My childhood friend in Caldwell, Anne Flower, posted this newspaper clipping on Facebook. 
Wow, looking at all of those faces of my classmates brought back so many memories!


Just for fun, I posted this pic of last Sunday's dinner, brined pork chops, hassleback potatoes, homemade apple sauce and corn.

Roger enjoyed golfing at the new Copper Rock in Hurricane with Aggies Steve Whitmer and my friend, 
who just moved in our branch with his wife, Nancy, Loran VanNoy.
It's amazing how many of our Aggie friends have shown up to live in St. George!
Roger said that they had a great day of golf together.





With all of the unrest going on in our country and our world with health concerns, 
Dow plunges, oil wars and political fights, 
I have taken time to evaluate how blessed our lives still are!
Love for our country, our family and of our God doesn't change and is huge cause to Celebrate!